Why nothing feels like it fits — even when you’ve tried to “find yourself.”
You’ve made vision boards. You’ve rewritten your values. You’ve tried “being more authentic.”
But somehow, your sense of self still slips away—like a shape you can’t quite hold.
You keep wondering, “Why do I still feel like I’m performing?”
What if the issue isn’t that you haven’t found yourself—
but that the very idea of “finding yourself” was built on a faulty structure?
I Keep Trying to Find Myself — But Nothing Sticks isn’t another identity-deep-dive or self-improvement manual.
It’s a quiet, systematic unpacking of why your identity might feel fragmented—
and what to do when even your best attempts at clarity feel like they’re drifting.
Rooted in structural philosophy, reflective design, and real-world emotional patterning, this book helps you:
— Recognize mirror-based identity patterns that rely on external reflection to feel real
— Understand why clarity often fades (even after a breakthrough)
— Learn to differentiate internal presence from rehearsed roles
— Practice grounding techniques that don’t rely on labels, productivity, or praise
— Shift from “trying to become” into learning how to stay
This isn’t about finally naming yourself in a way that impresses others.
It’s about building a habitable self—one that doesn’t disappear the moment the feedback stops.
Whether you feel like a shapeshifter, a people-pleaser, or just someone quietly untethered,
this book doesn’t demand you fix your identity.
It invites you to return to it.
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